Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Sex Why Cant We Talk About it With Our Partners?

Why are we all so hung up about not talking about sex?
When it comes to discussing sex why is it so many of us can't seem to get past go? If you're a man, you seem to be too worried about rejection or hurting your partners feelings. If you're a woman, many have a hard time voicing just what it is they want in the bedroom. You would think that today long after the sexual revolution of the 60’s the bed hopping of the 70’s and 80’s we would be over it already.
So here are a few things worth remembering, if your needs aren’t being met SPEAK UP! If your partner has no clue about what you like or don't like you have a problem and need to talk honestly to them. It isn’t very fair or respectful to go looking somewhere else before you try to fix the problem you have at home.

This is one of those things that has always amazed me when dealing with my guy and girl  friends. They will complain that their spouse or girlfriend isn’t meeting their needs but seem afraid to just talk to them. Really what are they going to do? Be disappointed that you like different things?
One of the things I learned was that if you don’t try things you don’t really know what you like or don’t. You can't really assume, yes there are things that are going to make you laugh your head off or things that will make you say, “Oh my!”
No one who is in a relationship should go through life with the outlook that sex with their partner is OK, but not great. It isn’t going to be perfection every time but hey try to remember you do have only one life and it would be pretty sad if at the end of the day you’ve never even had an orgasm or you were settling for less.
Relationships are what you make of them, good or bad. So if you want a partner who can make your toes curl, by getting spanked, or having your girl in sexy nighties really turns you on then open your mouth. The odds are they will find someone else who does it for them if you don't even try. Stop being a coward in the bedroom and be who you are whether its a freak in the bedroom or a submissive participant, what matters is being happy where you are in life.

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